The transition from high school to college is a major life change. For teenagers who graduated high school this spring, preparing for college this fall evokes many mixed emotions. Leaving home and starting college can bring about feelings of excitement, anxiety, stress, apprehension, and overwhelm to name a few. It’s completely normal to have mixed emotions when embarking on this new chapter in your life. While college can be stressful and challenging at times, it can be equally fun and exciting. Remember to give yourself both the time and permission to figure things out. Keep reading for helpful tips to ensure a smooth transition from high school to college.

Acknowledge Pre-college Nerves:

Begin by acknowledging the anxiety you are experiencing. Feeling anxious or apprehensive when entering an unknown experience for the first time is normal and healthy. While your feelings are uniquely your own, it’s important to remember that they are also quite common. Remind yourself that every other freshman entering college is just that, a freshman, who has never been to college before either. When it comes to the stress and worry about college, remember that you are not alone. And like anything else in life, the more you can recognize, understand, and hold space for your anxiety, the better you will be at managing and regulating it. Rather than judging yourself for feeling nervous, see if you can non-judgmentally accept your feelings of anxiety. When we allow our anxiety along for the ride, it’s easier to see that it is just one part of us, not all of us. Often this allows space for other feelings like some excitement and hopeful anticipation for what’s to come.

Connect With Your Friends and Loved Ones:

Connecting with your friends and family is a great way to feel more supported during any stressful life transition. If your friends are going off to college as well, it’s likely they are experiencing similar feelings to you. Try being honest and vulnerable about your concerns, excitement, and worries surrounding college. By openly sharing how you feel, you’ll likely find your friends understand and relate to your concerns, and ultimately, you’ll feel less alone. Similarly, your older loved ones likely have memories of leaving for college for the first time. While their stories and experiences may not be the same, speaking to those who have already been to college can help normalize and demystify the unknown, helping you feel a bit more confident and prepared. And once you’re at college, it’s helpful to continue to keep in touch with your friends and loved ones. Try scheduling phone calls, and weekly catch-ups, and if possible, make plans to visit one another.

Find Activities on Campus

Beginning college can be overwhelming and lead to a sense of not quite belonging. To help feel more connected at school, try getting involved in activities, clubs, or groups on campus. Engaging in activities that interest you is not only fun but a great way to boost your mood. Additionally, you’re more apt to meet like-minded individuals with shared interests. Joining any type of community or network helps prevent feelings of loneliness and isolation. Clubs and activities allow you to broaden your social network and support system both of which are important when living in a new place.

Prioritize Time Management and Create Schedules to Find Balance

In high school, you probably had a clear schedule with seven hours of school followed by extracurriculars. You likely went home and didn’t see your friends until the next day at school. In college, you have a lot more freedom and independence. Your classes are spread out, friends are always around, and you no longer have a curfew or parents telling you to come home. In comparison to high school, at college, you have much more time for yourself. It’s important that you use this time wisely to help prevent feelings of anxiety and overwhelm. Balancing academics, work, friendships, sleep, and other responsibilities can be challenging. Developing a routine early on will help you stay organized.

Establish a morning routine:

Begin by establishing a morning routine. A consistent morning routine has been found to help reduce stress, increase productivity, boost physical health, and promote overall well-being. A morning routine can be anything that works for you. Consider waking up at the same time each day, making your bed, stretching, or doing a five-minute meditation.

Hack your productivity:

When it comes to the rest of your day, consider when you are most productive. Do you work best or have the most energy in the morning? If for example mornings are best for you, consider enrolling in morning classes. Try to plan your most cognitively demanding work during your most productive hours.

Try a time audit:

If you’re struggling to juggle everything, it can be helpful to do a time audit. Sit down and look at how you spend your time each day. If you find you spend a large portion of time studying but struggle to prioritize sleep or rest, it might be worth making some adjustments. Schedule and block off time in your calendar for needed rest. Make a real commitment to downtime without any guilt, as rest and self-care are crucial to your mental health. Engaging in active or passive relaxation strategies helps you recharge and prevent burnout.

Reach out for support: Therapy for Women’s Issues in NYC, NY

While going off to college involves a great deal of independence, remember, that you don’t have to navigate this transition alone. Liz Yarock Psychotherapy is here to support you as you cope with the challenges and adjustments of starting college for the first time. If you find yourself preoccupied with worry or that your anxiety is interfering with your daily life, it can be helpful to speak with a trusted women’s therapist to improve your coping skills.

Make the transition to college smoother today!

Are you or someone you love about to embark on the exciting yet challenging journey to college? At Liz Yarock Psychotherapy, I understand that this transition can be both thrilling and daunting. Whether you’re dealing with pre-college nerves, adjusting to a new environment, or struggling to balance your newfound independence, you don’t have to navigate this path alone.

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